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12 Steps to Finding a Spiritual Teacher
You Can Trust
by Sandra Mizumoto Posey, Ph.D.
Books abound on the array of neo-pagan
faiths and Wiccan traditions, but after reading all we can, it is common
to desire a teacher to inspire and guide us along our chosen path. Unfortunately,
the world is full of hucksters eager to cash in on this desire. Money, however,
is not the only "evil" to watch out for, and often not even the primary one.
Potential religious teachers often seek the recognition or respect given
to them by eager students. Sometimes, such respect is entirely unwarranted.
Over the course of our lives, we may have many teachers and learn these lessons
through hard-won experience but how can you avoid these pitfalls and find
a spiritual teacher with your best interests at heart? Here are some tips
to help you find your way amidst the labyrinth of good and bad
intentions:
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Search for a teacher who is both
experienced and honest. There are many reputable teachers in a variety
of traditions and they will welcome your questions about their lineage and
training. If they are self-taught, a good teacher with lots of experience
is not ashamed to admit they are. Claims of profound mystical powers are
often a warning sign, as is how your prospective teacher handles proprietary
information. Is it common for the teacher or other group members to pass
along written information without crediting authorship? How can you tell?
If the style of language used in the text does not match what your teacher
or fellow group member usually uses, chances are they copied this information
elsewhere without crediting its author. A good teacher will not only credit
where they acquired information, they will make a point of teaching you to
do the same.
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Take your time & avoid anyone
who moves too fast. Dont adopt a teacher on the
basis of one meeting. Spiritual education is a life-long journey. Theres
no inherent value in rushing your decision. On the flip side: does your
prospective teacher accept you as a student without taking the time to really
get to know you? This should be a two-way process and a teacher who does
not take the time to evaluate prospective students is in search of quantity,
not quality.
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Get to know your teacher & his/her
tradition. Sometimes the only way to get to know a teacher is by enrolling
in a class they may offer online or at your local occult shop. Feel free
to enroll in these without committing to being their student on a long-term
basis (ie, seeking initiation or ordination with that teacher). Evaluate
the information you are provided with in the class Does it feel like
the right path for you? Does his/her description of their tradition fall
in line with your own research on that tradition. You havent done any
research on his/her tradition? Back-up and do that before agreeing to anything!
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Conduct a background check. What
is your prospective teachers background? Does s/he claim initiations
or degrees that you cannot confirm through outside sources? A reputable teacher
will be happy to provide references. Be wary of individuals who claim hereditary
blood lines or training that you cannot verify. Find out his/her reputation
in the spiritual community. Is the prospective teacher respected amongst
his/her peers? If you meet your teacher at a festival, community event, or
even in a chatroom, ask others of similar stature and experience what they
think of him/her. Does s/he allow contact with her former students that have
completed their training with her? If not, consider it a warning sign.
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Learn to spot power trips and puffery.
Are you strongly urged by the teacher to take the next class (to the
point of being pushy)? Does the teacher seem impressed with him/herself?
Does s/he brag about who s/he knows or his/her own stature? Does your prospective
teacher make rash, emotional decisions or always place blame on someone other
than themselves? Does your prospective teacher expect you to put them on
a pedestal? If not, are you tempted to put them on one? Run far, far away.
No matter who instigates such a relationship, it is not healthy for either
party.
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Ask questions about his/her personal
and professional life. Is his/her emotional life in order?
Spirituality affects and permeates all levels of our lives, and as such a
good teacher should have stable relationships with their mate, family, friends,
former teachers and former students. This is not to say that we dont
all go through ups and downs, or that you should necessarily quit working
with someone when they go through inevitable woes life swings our way, but
youll both have a more rewarding experience if you start when you are
both on a more stable footing. This, of course, will become readily apparent
if you follow step 1 (above) and take your time: time will tell you whether
or not your prospective teacher is merely going through a rough period or
if chaos, dissension and blaming others seems to follow them wherever they
go.
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Find out if the teacher takes minors
as their students without significant dialogue and permission from the
students legal guardian. For those who are underage
Yes, I realize you are eager to learn as much as you can about your
chosen spiritual path, but remember that there is no reason to rush things.
Even your parents religion will teach you valuable lessons regardless
of what path you later choose to take. A good teacher will encourage that
you learn your lessons from your family while you can.
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Explore all your
options. Does your prospective teacher encourage you to
explore several paths before deciding his/hers is the right one? An experienced
teacher will be able to provide you with a list of readings that illustrate
perspectives different from his/her own. S/he should be willing to discuss
these options with you without pointing out his/hers is the only right
option. Certain traditions require significant investments of your time
if you are the type that likes to study many different paths simultaneously,
talk this over with your teacher. Most will be fine with it, especially if
you are still exploring and trying things out (they may even encourage it!),
but because of the intensity of the training they may require you to decide
upon one before beginning a priest/ess path with their group.
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Evaluate what you expect from your
teacher. What kind of relationships do other people in the group have
with the teacher? You can tell a lot from context. Some teachers will prefer
a more formal relationship, others informal. One isn't necessarily better
than another, but knowing what you're after ensures a more likely fit. It's
also a good idea to open up a dialogue by writing a list of what you are
looking for and sharing this with the prospective teacher when you
meet.
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Ask prospective teachers what they
expect from you. What will your homework assignments be
like and how much time per week or month will you be expected to devote to
them? How many classes and rituals do you need to attend? Be honest with
him/her and yourself -- can you balance the study load along with work, family
life or school? If not, now may not be the time to begin this particular
course of study. If a fee is charged for lessons, does it seem reasonable?
Teachers have to eat too, so money does not necessarily indicate base
motivations, but the fee should be reasonable (whatever that means for you
-- don't be afraid to ask what the fees are allocated for). Also ask if you
are allowed to disagree with a teacher. You should certainly learn their
tradition and fit reasonably well with their beliefs if you plan to dedicate
and seek initiation, but questions and doubts should be part of the dialogue
and not simply subject to blind faith. Bear in mind however that the relationship
you have with your teacher should also not be a constant source of philosophical
(or other) disagreement.
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Assess whether or not the ethics of
a group is a good fit with your own. Some people think
that "consciousness-altering" substances are a valuable part of ritual, while
others would never even consider such a thing. From Dionysian revels to Native
American worship, this isnt an easy question when you look at historic
precedents, but whether your own ethics fall on one side or the other of
this argument, make sure you discuss this with your prospective teacher ahead
of time. Either way, avoid illegal substances and the groups that use
them. Whether or not they should be legal is beside the point;
common sense tells us that it is needlessly foolhardy to participate in illegal
activities. Another area to consider: Certain favors from the student to
the teacher are not considered ethical; the most obvious ones are
sexual favors. Were human; sometimes romantic relationships develop
between members of a group, but they should not be expected as a matter of
course, nor should they break any commitments you or the other party has
made with your respective spouses nor should they be tied to your advancement
in the group. Less obvious are things like washing the windows in the
High Priestess' house (Helping to clean up the property after a ritual, however,
is normal).
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Trust your intuition.
A teacher may check out all the points beautifully but
the student's inner bell is clanging an alarm. In that case, the student
should heed it.
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